Hi, this is King.
In my opinion, the reason why facebook is so popular is that face book makes people show their personal lives and communicate more easily with each other. Facebook is a kind of blog, but it used members system, and basing on this system, people can show something they feel happy or feel interested. From this way, a lot of persons who have some difficulties in communication can easily connect others. They can find the persons who are in the same school, and invite them to be their “friends”, or invite the colleagues, or their real friends. Users can show themselves to others without any extra steps, and commonly, the extra steps can take them a lot of stress in real communication, so, on the facebook, they do not need think something like “ oh, they are looking at me!”, or “ they are laughing at me, did I make some mistakes?” or “ Oh no, she is looking at me, I do not want her to see me now!”.
It seems that facebook makes everything very easy, in fact, too depending on facebook will make a lot of homeboys or homegirls, and their communication problems still can not be saved. The shier, the more they depend on facebook, so facebook is not good for them.
Here is a joke. A boy was kidnapped, and the police catched the criminal and asked:” how do you let the boy go with you? How do you let the staffs of kindergarten trust that you are the boy’s parents friend?” The criminal said:” well, if you see the boy’s parents’ facebook pages, you can know everything about the boy.” Nowdays, people are not just happy to show their personal lives. In fact, they are crazy to show their private lives. I do not like it, because it makes the limites between personal and public is more and more obscure.
Hey King-- IMHO, you hit the nail right on the head. It seems Facebook addresses the shyness we all feel. It gives us a place to express feelings that are difficult to share in the moment. It makes private feelings public. But why must we feel compelled to do this? You are a genius.
Thanks for posting --mike
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